QA問答╃╃：作為一名INTJ◕☁₪，你總是感覺想逃離社會嗎│•？
As an INTJ, do you always feel like wanting to escape from society?
譯文簡介
與其試圖逃離社會◕☁₪，我更願意在社會中創造自己的和平綠洲◕☁₪，然後生活在其中╃•☁✘☁。我非常小心地設定了我的生活◕☁₪，這樣沒有人能強迫我做我不想做的事情◕☁₪，這是作為一個獨立的成年人的最好部分╃•☁✘☁。我知道怎麼說“不”╃•☁✘☁。
正文翻譯
As an INTJ, do you always feel like wanting to escape from society?
作為一名INTJ◕☁₪，你總是感覺想逃離社會嗎│•？
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Yes. I don’t enjoy what people enjoy these days… small talk, trendy clothes, TikTok trends, parties, jokes, etc. I prefer to be alone, outside in the grass fields, listening to nothing but my thoughts and finding my inner zen while contemplating life. People often called me a young grandpa for enjoying this kind of thing. But in all honesty, I don't see the purpose of going out making friends, trying to look for some hot date and all kinds of bullshit. We INTJ’s are true masters of life if we ponder hard enough about it.
是的◕☁₪，我不喜歡人們現在喜歡的東西……閒聊✘•│•、時尚服裝✘•│•、TikTok潮流✘•│•、派對✘•│•、笑話等等╃•☁✘☁。我更喜歡一個人呆在外面的草地上◕☁₪，只去聽我內心的思想◕☁₪，在思考生活的同時找到我的內心的禪╃•☁✘☁。人們經常稱我為年輕的爺爺◕☁₪，因為我喜歡這種事情╃•☁✘☁。但老實說◕☁₪，我看不出出去交朋友的目的◕☁₪，試圖尋找一些熱門活動和各種狗屁╃•☁✘☁。如果我們認真思考◕☁₪，我們INTJ是真正的生活大師╃•☁✘☁。
Are you serious? That's been my dream since I became an adult!!! Yes please. Or at least I want to have my own small sane community. Just a very few sane people where we see one another when it's really necessary
你是認真的嗎│•？這是我成年後的夢想·☁！·☁！·☁！是的╃•☁✘☁。或者是擁有一個自己的理智小社群╃•☁✘☁。只有極少數理智的人◕☁₪，我們在真正必要的時候會看到彼此╃•☁✘☁。
Instead of trying to escape from society, I prefer to create and live in my own peaceful oasis in the midst of society. I’ve taken great care to set up my life such that no one can force me to do something that I don’t want to, and this is the best part of being an independent adult. I know how to say ‘no’.
I am sextive about who I befriend and spend time with, and I genuinely enjoy spending time with a few carefully chosen friends and interesting people in my downtime. My career is such that I interact with other highly intelligent, driven, and self-motivated people, and we work together to achieve big goals that I find intellectually stimulating, personally meaningful, and spiritually fulfilling. I work because I genuinely enjoy it and not for the money, and I would never be able to do such interesting things had I escaped from society. There a few restaurants, cafes, and parks near me which I gain great pleasure from regularly visiting. These aspects of life are only available in cities (such as living car-free), so I have no desire to stop living in vibrant cities. I also plan my days to ensure that I have plenty of alone time for thinking, reflection, meditation, reading, etc. It’s all about finding a balance which works for me.
I have learned how to create such oases for myself wherever I go, so I can be happy in most cities almost anywhere in the world. Instead of escaping from society, I prefer to block out or not engage with the people and parts of society that I dislike, while still deeply and wholeheartedly engaging with the aspects of society which I do enjoy. Creating a curated oasis gives me the best of both worlds—a healthy balance.
與其試圖逃離社會◕☁₪，我更願意在社會中創造自己的和平綠洲◕☁₪，然後生活在其中╃•☁✘☁。我非常小心地設定了我的生活◕☁₪，這樣沒有人能強迫我做我不想做的事情◕☁₪，這是作為一個獨立的成年人的最好部分╃•☁✘☁。我知道怎麼說“不”╃•☁✘☁。
我會選擇和誰交朋友◕☁₪，和誰共度時光◕☁₪，我真的很喜歡在閒暇時間和幾個精心挑選的朋友和有趣的人共度時光╃•☁✘☁。我的職業生涯是這樣的◕☁₪，我與其他高度聰明✘•│•、有上進心的人互動◕☁₪，我們一起努力實現我覺得在智力上有刺激性✘•│•、有個人意義和精神上有成就感的大目標╃•☁✘☁。我工作是因為我真的喜歡它◕☁₪，而不是為了錢◕☁₪，如果我逃離社會◕☁₪，我永遠也做不到這麼有趣的事情╃•☁✘☁。我家附近有幾家餐館✘•│•、咖啡館和公園◕☁₪，我經常光顧這些地方◕☁₪，感到非常愉快╃•☁✘☁。這些方面的生活只有在城市才有（比如生活中沒有汽車）◕☁₪，所以我不想停止生活在充滿活力的城市╃•☁✘☁。我還計劃我的日子◕☁₪，以確保我有足夠的獨處時間來思考✘•│•、回憶✘•│•、冥想✘•│•、閱讀等╃•☁✘☁。這一切都是為了找到一種適合我的平衡╃•☁✘☁。
我已經學會了如何在任何地方為自己創造這樣的綠洲◕☁₪，這樣我就可以在世界上幾乎任何地方的大多數城市都感到快樂╃•☁✘☁。與其逃避社會◕☁₪，我更喜歡排斥或不與我不喜歡的人這部分社會接觸◕☁₪，同時仍然深入和全心全意地參與我確實喜歡的那部分社會╃•☁✘☁。建立一個精心策劃的綠洲◕☁₪，給了我兩個世界中最好的——一個健康的平衡╃•☁✘☁。
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When was I ever part of any society?
我什麼時候加入過任何社會│•？
Yes.
I wouldn’t put it as a typical „INTJ“ characteristic but rather a personal inclination since it can be the case for any MBTI type in fact.
But do INTJs tend to feel like wanting to escape from society?
Probably, but it could be happening for various reasons. Whilst one INTJ can’t stand the foolishness of that collective mind labeled as society, another INTJ might be having trouble with their social skills and „vibing“ with other people. But these two examples of INTJs would very much - and not involuntarily - retreat from social life into their rooms where they are guaranteed the freedom they are looking for.
And it will be child’s play for us to spend a lot of time withdrawn in a small room devoid of people.
是的╃•☁✘☁。
我不會把它作為一種典型的“INTJ”的特徵◕☁₪，而是一種個人傾向◕☁₪，因為事實上◕☁₪，任何一種MBTI型別都可能如此╃•☁✘☁。
但INTJ是否傾向於想要逃離社會│•？
很可能◕☁₪，但這可能是出於各種原因╃•☁✘☁。雖然一方面是INTJ無法忍受被貼上集體思維這種愚蠢的社會標籤╃•☁✘☁。但另一方面INTJ可能在社交技能和與他人“互動”方面遇到了問題╃•☁✘☁。這兩個原因是INTJ會非常想——而不是非自願——從社交生活中退出◕☁₪，進入他們所尋求的自由房間╃•☁✘☁。
我們在一個沒有人的小房間裡花很多時間獨處◕☁₪，這將是一個孩子氣的遊戲╃•☁✘☁。
My ideal life would be living in the exact same house that I live in now, surrounded by a large field with no one around.
我的理想生活是住在和我現在住的房子完全一樣的房子裡◕☁₪，周圍是一大片沒有人的田野╃•☁✘☁。
Since I was 14. You can try living in a tent in the woods fighting for your food and to survive, but that has its own set of problems. Been there, done that.
I think when we finally have a new puzzle to solve or thing to focus on that we like, we no longer care what society is doing. Started diving more into studying digital marketing and analytics and I forgot society was still a thing. This is more fun than worrying about people I can’t control.
從我14歲起就想逃離╃•☁✘☁。你可以試著住在森林裡的帳篷裡◕☁₪，為了食物和生存而戰鬥◕☁₪，但這有它自己的一系列問題╃•☁✘☁。我去過那裡◕☁₪，我做到了╃•☁✘☁。
我認為◕☁₪，當我們終於有了一個新的難題需要去解決◕☁₪，或者我們有喜歡的事情需要關注時◕☁₪，我們就不再關心社會在做什麼了╃•☁✘☁。後來◕☁₪，我開始更深入地研究數字營銷和分析◕☁₪，我就忘記了社會這件事情╃•☁✘☁。研究數字營銷和分析比擔心我無法控制的人更有趣╃•☁✘☁。
No. Retirement has helped. I sleep better. I enjoy my abundant alone time. By the end of the day, I am glad to share dinner with my spouse, who continues to work, despite being older than me. I enjoy my occasional outings a few times per week, although I sometimes find that I am talking myself out of events when it seems like overload.
Having more control over the number and size of my social contacts makes a big difference in my willingness to continue to participate in society. I make mindful choices about the timing and length of phone calls in a day, for instance. I try for balance, although for an INTJ, balance in a 24 hour day might be a very low percent of social time compared to alone time.
不◕☁₪，退休對此會有幫助╃•☁✘☁。我睡得更好╃•☁✘☁。我喜歡我有充裕的獨處時間╃•☁✘☁。一天結束後◕☁₪，我很高興能和我的配偶共進晚餐◕☁₪，儘管她比我大◕☁₪，但她仍在繼續工作╃•☁✘☁。我喜歡每週偶爾出去幾次◕☁₪，儘管有時我發現自己在談論一些似乎超負荷的事情╃•☁✘☁。
控制我自己參與社會交往的次數和規模◕☁₪，這對我繼續參與社會的意願有很大的影響╃•☁✘☁。例如◕☁₪，我會謹慎地選擇一天內打電話的時間和長度╃•☁✘☁。我試著保持平衡◕☁₪，但對於INTJ來說◕☁₪，要保持平衡◕☁₪，與獨處時間相比◕☁₪，社交時間在24小時內的佔比會低很多╃•☁✘☁。
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Yes, and it’s also a tell-tale sign that you’re not surrounding yourself in your niche, or people that will accept and grow with the real you.
The way to overcome it? Leverage one of your passionate skill as a solution to a real life problem. The circles you form via this pathway are there for what you are.
是的◕☁₪，這也是一個訊號◕☁₪，表明你沒有把自己放在正確的位置上◕☁₪，也沒有讓人們接受你並與真實的你一起成長╃•☁✘☁。
克服它的方法是什麼│•？利用你的熱情✘•│•、技能解決現實生活中的問題╃•☁✘☁。你透過這條路徑形成的圓圈就是你真正的自己╃•☁✘☁。
Though not an INTJ, but my brother is. I'll answer based on what I've observed. Feeling like escaping from society?
The answer is yes.
He mostly does anything he can to avoid social interactions especially amongst unfamiliar people or environment. By escaping he reads memes, watches anime or football, reads novels usually mythical books written in series and he also loves to watch comedy films although he doesn't like movies as much but prefers documentaries.
雖然我不是INTJ◕☁₪，但我兄弟是╃•☁✘☁。我會根據我觀察到的情況來回答╃•☁✘☁。想逃離社會嗎│•？
答案是肯定的╃•☁✘☁。
他通常會盡一切可能避免社交◕☁₪，尤其是在不熟悉的人或環境中╃•☁✘☁。他透過看錶情包◕☁₪，看動漫或足球◕☁₪，讀小說◕☁₪，通常是系列小說來逃避社交╃•☁✘☁。雖然他不太喜歡電影◕☁₪，他也看喜劇電影◕☁₪，不過他更喜歡紀錄片╃•☁✘☁。
Yes and no.
On a daily basis YES! (I can't even name how many times I've thought about whether are thay even aware of what they're saying, whether they understand what they're doing, whether they comprehend their ignorance, etc.). Countless times I thought "What a pity that there are no block or mute options in life.".
As a concept NO! I cannot condemn the whole society because I am a part of it. It would be hypocritical. What I can do on a daily basis is to appreciate even more these rare extraordinery individuals who stand out in the mass of gray faces, actions and thoughts. I am glad to have that luxury that I still think it is a small price to deal with the masses for the sake of invaluable individuals.
Of course, that doesn't mean that in later years I really won't give up on society, realizing that it's no longer worth it, that the price is too high, and that my mind can't stretch to that extent to find justification or explanation.
Maybe then my answer to this question will be simply "Yes!" and maybe even “YES!” (lol).
是也不是╃•☁✘☁。
每天都想逃避·☁！我甚至記不清我有多少次想過他們是否知道自己在說什麼◕☁₪，是否明白自己在做什麼◕☁₪，是否理解自己的無知等等╃•☁✘☁。無數次我都在想“生活中沒有閉塞或沉默的選擇◕☁₪，真是太可惜了”╃•☁✘☁。
但對於逃離社會這個想法◕☁₪，我對他說不·☁！我不能譴責整個社會◕☁₪，因為我是社會的一部分╃•☁✘☁。這是虛偽的╃•☁✘☁。我每天所能做的就是更加欣賞那些罕見的超凡脫俗的人◕☁₪，他們在眾多灰色的面孔✘•│•、行動和思想中脫穎而出╃•☁✘☁。我很高興有這樣的奢侈◕☁₪，我仍然認為為了寶貴的個人與群眾打交道是一個很值得的代價╃•☁✘☁。
當然◕☁₪，這並不意味著在以後的歲月裡◕☁₪，我真的不會放棄社會◕☁₪，意識到它不再值得◕☁₪，價格太高◕☁₪，我的思想無法延伸到那個程度來尋找理由或解釋╃•☁✘☁。
也許我對這個問題的回答是一個簡單的“是”·☁！可能是超級“是”·☁！哈哈╃•☁✘☁。
Society is an abstract concept and does not exist as such; it should be concretized; do you mean work, friends, or family? In the end, only individuals exist.
Of course not. As a rational individual, I do not “feel like”, more typically I consider based on thinking. Society is remarkably interesting, a place to give and take, a place to create values together with people, to succeed. It is a wonderful place to prosper and grow..
社會是一個抽象的概念◕☁₪，沒有實體；它應該具體化；你是指工作✘•│•、朋友還是家人│•？說到底◕☁₪，還是人╃•☁✘☁。
當然不想逃避╃•☁✘☁。作為一個理性的個體◕☁₪，我不用“感覺”◕☁₪，我更喜歡基於思考來考慮╃•☁✘☁。社會是一個非常有趣的地方◕☁₪，是一個給予和索取的地方◕☁₪，一個與人們一起創造價值的地方◕☁₪，也是一個成功的地方╃•☁✘☁。這是一個繁榮和成長的好地方……
Yes, with no reservations whatsoever. I am introverted at an extreme asocial position on the introvert-extrovert personality dimension. This is compounded by self-diagnosis of having schizoid traits. Hell on earth is a room full of people intent on getting blatted and gleaning the latest juicy gossip. I love my immediate family but am only truly relaxed and myself when alone with my genuine friends, my dogs, who appear to ‘get me’ to an extent that humans can’t due to the inevitable barriers that separate me from them. Humans, however, do seem content to accept my false social self without question so social interactions are inevitably shallow and superficial. Not that I howl at the full moon or anything but…
是的◕☁₪，毫無保留╃•☁✘☁。在內向——外向的性格維度上◕☁₪，我處於極端的位置╃•☁✘☁。這與我自我診斷自己具有精神分裂症特徵有關╃•☁✘☁。人間地獄就是一個屋子的某個房間裡全是人◕☁₪，他們一心一意想要說長道短◕☁₪，收集最新的有趣八卦╃•☁✘☁。我愛我的直系親屬◕☁₪，但只有當我和我真正的朋友✘•│•、我的狗獨處時◕☁₪，我才真正的感到放鬆和輕鬆◕☁₪，因為不可避免的障礙將我和他們分隔開來◕☁₪，狗似乎“抓住了我”╃•☁✘☁。然而◕☁₪，人類似乎毫無疑問地滿足於接受我虛假的社交自我◕☁₪，因此社互動動不可避免地是膚淺和淺薄的╃•☁✘☁。不是我在滿月時嚎叫◕☁₪，而是……
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I tend to feel that I exist away from/separately from society anyway but I do like to isolate and I love being out in the wild or great outdoors.
the more time I spend with people I don’t really value- be it socialising or at work- the more likely it is that I will have an introvert crash afterwards. But when I’m recharged and feeling well and good- I enjoy and look forward to company from interest stimulating people.
無論如何◕☁₪，我傾向於覺得自己想要遠離社會◕☁₪，我喜歡與世隔絕◕☁₪，我喜歡在野外或戶外活動╃•☁✘☁。
我與我並不真正看重的人相處的時間越長◕☁₪，無論是社交還是工作◕☁₪，我越有可能在之後發生內向的崩潰╃•☁✘☁。但當我重新充電並感覺良好時◕☁₪，我喜歡並期待著有趣的人陪伴著我╃•☁✘☁。
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I wouldn’t say always. The feeling of a desire to escape society comes and goes. The thought was more frequent when I was younger.
我不會說總是如此╃•☁✘☁。逃離社會的慾望起起落落╃•☁✘☁。當我年輕的時候◕☁₪，這種想法更加頻繁╃•☁✘☁。
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constantly since when i was a child. and since i can’t force society to think like i do, it’s difficult for me to interact with others, so when i have to i sometimes offer a more “basic” version of me, excluding those two people i consider close friends.
從我還是個孩子的時候起就一直這樣╃•☁✘☁。因為我不能強迫社會像我一樣思考◕☁₪，所以我很難與他人互動◕☁₪，所以當我不得不這樣做時◕☁₪，我會給他人提供一個更“初級”的我◕☁₪，不包括那些我認為最親密的朋友╃•☁✘☁。
constantly
始終如此╃•☁✘☁。
We do this constantly. It’s like a truth that keeps at us, an ever present idea that we hold onto for the sake of our sanity.
我們經常這樣做╃•☁✘☁。這就像是一個一直縈繞在我們心頭的真理◕☁₪，一個我們為了保持理智而堅持的永遠存在的想法╃•☁✘☁。
原創翻譯╃╃：龍騰網 http://www.ltaaa.cn 轉載請註明出處
For me, the problem is rather that I quickly get tired of society, although I never feel inside the group. there is a feeling of a clear line, of isolation, which does not cause such pressure and irritation (although it definitely used to, but this is obviously about something else), but moments when you hear these silly conversations, and just a lot of incomprehensible to me, which wastes time - yes, I want to run away.
對我來說◕☁₪，問題是我很快就厭倦了社會◕☁₪，儘管我從來沒有置身於群體之中╃•☁✘☁。有一種明確的界限◕☁₪，一種孤立的感覺◕☁₪，這不會造成這樣的壓力和憤怒（雖然過去確實如此◕☁₪，但這顯然是關於其他事情的）◕☁₪，但當你聽到那些愚蠢的對話時◕☁₪，我會感到很不理解◕☁₪，這會浪費時間╃•☁✘☁。是的◕☁₪，我想逃跑╃•☁✘☁。
Yes…but have not found a place…
是的…但還不知道逃到哪裡……
Escape? No. I’d be lying if I didn’t allow society to escape from me every once in awhile. Sometimes I don’t go looking for it real fast either after it gets around the corner.
When this happens, I enjoy the pace, take in the scenery. Society always comes running back around the bend shouting at me, though. “Hey… Hey! Look at this over here! I found this!”… I found that awhile ago, but kind of have to go look at it again anyway… it’s just the way it is.
逃跑│•？不╃•☁✘☁。如果我說我從來沒有過想要逃離的想法◕☁₪，那我就是在撒謊╃•☁✘☁。但當想法過去後◕☁₪，我也不會去尋找這種想法╃•☁✘☁。
當這種情況發生時◕☁₪，我享受節奏◕☁₪，欣賞風景╃•☁✘☁。不過◕☁₪，社會總是在拐彎處跑回來衝我大喊大叫╃╃：“嘿……嘿·☁！看看這裡·☁！我找到了這個·☁！”……我不久前就發現了◕☁₪，但無論如何◕☁₪，還是得再看看……它就是這樣╃•☁✘☁。
Of course not. You go out of your cocoon and engage in life as best you can. It’s enriching and vital.
當然不是╃•☁✘☁。你走出你的繭◕☁₪，盡你所能地投入生活╃•☁✘☁。生活是豐富和重要的╃•☁✘☁。
Best answer, in my opinion. Even introverts are social animals. Living is stepping out of your comfort zone and exploring this vast creation.
One thing that helps me is to think as if every breath may be my last, do I really want to have my last breath be one where I am hiding from everyone. I say no.
樓上的是我認為最好的答案╃•☁✘☁。即使內向的人也是社交動物╃•☁✘☁。生活就是走出你的舒適區◕☁₪，探索這個巨大的世界╃•☁✘☁。
有一件事對我有幫助◕☁₪，那就是思考◕☁₪，好像每一次呼吸都可能是我的最後一口氣◕☁₪，我真的想讓我的最後一次呼吸發生在一個我對每個人都隱藏的地方嗎│•？我的答案是不╃•☁✘☁。
原創翻譯╃╃：龍騰網 http://www.ltaaa.cn 轉載請註明出處
Yes, currently working on it, i work hard to disappear from society. I dream about building a container/ tiny house within nature, somewhere in a countryside where i can enjoy life in 5 years time far from humans and its chaos.
是的◕☁₪，目前正在努力◕☁₪，我努力從社會中消失╃•☁✘☁。我夢想在大自然中建造一個集裝箱/小房子◕☁₪，在一個鄉村的某個地方◕☁₪，我可以在遠離人類和混亂◕☁₪，一個人生活5年◕☁₪，享受生活╃•☁✘☁。
Yes, I do. I hate that society is based on many rules and things I don’t agree on. In my head I’m free and I hate most people aren’t. I have just 3 friends for this reason and I just want to stay with them and also family. Most of the time I want to study (on my own), responding to Quora and reading. I literally just live for my dreams (more than dreams they are what I want to be and to do in the future)
是的◕☁₪，我知道╃•☁✘☁。我討厭社會是因為這個社會有很多我不同意的規則和東西╃•☁✘☁。在我的頭腦中◕☁₪，我是自由的◕☁₪，而讓人討厭的是這個世界很多人都是不自由的╃•☁✘☁。因為這個原因◕☁₪，我只有3個朋友◕☁₪，我只想和他們◕☁₪，還有我的家人呆在一起╃•☁✘☁。大多數時候◕☁₪，我也想學習◕☁₪，回應Quora和閱讀╃•☁✘☁。我真的只是為了我的夢想而活（不僅僅是夢想◕☁₪，還有我想成為的◕☁₪，也是我未來要做的）
Yes. People are largely inconsistent and contradictory to the point of absurdity. Because the INTJ looks for patterns and systems in everything, it is almost impossible to make sense of people and what they do and think for no logical reason. It’s like being in crazy town. I enjoy spending time in nature, which makes perfect sense to me.
是的╃•☁✘☁。人們在很大程度上前後矛盾◕☁₪，矛盾到了荒謬的地步╃•☁✘☁。因為INTJ在所有事物中尋找模式和系統◕☁₪，所以幾乎不可能毫無邏輯地理解人們和他們的行為和想法╃•☁✘☁。這就像在瘋狂的小鎮╃•☁✘☁。我喜歡在大自然中度過時光◕☁₪，這對我來說很有意義╃•☁✘☁。
It would be nice, yes. Eventually I want to socialise again but more often than not I like some really quiet time after people annoy me all day.
那會很好◕☁₪，是的╃•☁✘☁。最終◕☁₪，我想再次社交◕☁₪，但更多的時候◕☁₪，我喜歡在人們煩了我一整天之後◕☁₪，有一段真正安靜的時間╃•☁✘☁。
Yes. All. The. Fucking. Time. It hurts to live in such an under developed society, made up by mostly ignorant people.
是的╃•☁✘☁。他們的所有時間都如此╃•☁✘☁。生活在這樣一個由大多數無知的人組成的欠發達的社會里是很痛苦的╃•☁✘☁。
I’ve learned to accommodate the conflict in me. I need lots of complex information to keep my mind stimulated. And its hard to find people who can stimulate my mind. But since I’m also part ESFP, I love just talking, charming, laughing and playing with people. I find that when I haven’t fed my Ni, I tend to mix up socializing with showing off my intellect in hopes of finding somebody similar to me or lifting someone up to my standard. And this inevitably leads to a clash with any ENTP nearby. So, I’ve reluctantly abandoned hopes of finding any suitable group of friends for myself. I’m a loner and I’m learning to live with it. And I’ve managed to convince my inner ESFP to read up on books and become a better performer. I think I find value in society when I can expose the chinks in their so-called “hierarchy”.
我已經學會了適應內心的衝突╃•☁✘☁。我需要很多複雜的資訊來刺激我的思維╃•☁✘☁。很難找到能激發我思想的人╃•☁✘☁。但由於我也是ESFP的一員◕☁₪，我喜歡與人交談✘•│•、迷人✘•│•、歡笑和玩耍╃•☁✘☁。我發現◕☁₪，當我沒有給我的直覺餵食時◕☁₪，我傾向於將社交與炫耀我的智力混為一談◕☁₪，希望找到與我相似的人或提升某人達到我的標準╃•☁✘☁。這不可避免地導致了與附近任何ENTP的衝突╃•☁✘☁。所以◕☁₪，我不情願地放棄了為自己尋找合適朋友的希望╃•☁✘☁。我是一個孤獨的人◕☁₪，我正在學習如何生活╃•☁✘☁。我已經說服了我內心的ESFP去閱讀書籍◕☁₪，成為一個更好的表演者╃•☁✘☁。我認為◕☁₪，當我能揭露他們所謂的“等級制度”中的漏洞時◕☁₪，我就會在社會中找到價值╃•☁✘☁。
The question is appropriate, but the words are wrong.
“Feel" is not a thing we do as part of decision making or assessments. I die a little inside everytime I use that word to simplify communication to get it over with.
“Wanting" is a pointless…activity. Do or do not, there is no want. We make a choice, we don't linger in the middle twiddling our thumbs like most people. Do I want to, yes or no? It never becomes a verb.
So the question should read: “As an INTJ, are you continually putting more distance between yourself and society?”
Yes. I've seriously considered going off grid, but that becomes a “reinventing the wheel" sort of path, so it's not really practical. It's also nearly impossible.
For now I'm existing on the fringe of society, distracting myself till death, in limbo between there being no point to all of this and the finality of nonexistence. Perfectly content to wait it out.
這個問題很恰當◕☁₪，但用詞不對╃•☁✘☁。
“感覺”不是我們作為決策或評估的依據╃•☁✘☁。每次我用這個詞來簡化溝通以解決問題時◕☁₪，我都會有點心灰意冷╃•☁✘☁。
“想要”是一種毫無意義的……活動╃•☁✘☁。去做或者不去做◕☁₪，沒有什麼想要不想要╃•☁✘☁。我們做出選擇◕☁₪，我們不會像大多數人那樣一直徘徊╃•☁✘☁。我想要嗎│•？我不想要嗎│•？想要永遠不會成為我的動詞╃•☁✘☁。
所以問題應該是╃╃：“作為一名INTJ◕☁₪，你是否在不斷地拉近自己與社會之間的距離│•？”
是的◕☁₪，我曾認真考慮過脫離網路◕☁₪，但這變成了一種“重新發明輪子”的行為◕☁₪，所以這並不實際╃•☁✘☁。這幾乎是不可能的╃•☁✘☁。
現在◕☁₪，我生活在社會的邊緣◕☁₪，分散自己的注意力直到死亡◕☁₪，在這一切都毫無意義和不存在的終結之間徘徊╃•☁✘☁。完全滿足於等待╃•☁✘☁。
Always!!
一直如此·☁！·☁！
I mean I think about it frequently, but the fact is that life's a bit too cosy to really do it.
我的意思是◕☁₪，我經常思考這個問題◕☁₪，但事實是◕☁₪，生活有點過於舒適◕☁₪，無法真正做到這一點╃•☁✘☁。
Not society
Earth
不是逃離社會◕☁₪，
是逃離地球╃•☁✘☁。
Annoying and stupid people are exhausting to have to be around all day, every day at work! I think we, at least I as an INTJ, really just want to escape the people more than the Earth! Not one day goes by that I do not have to deal with someone extremely irritating and rude whether while driving my car, at work, or at the store. I would just like to retire in a beautiful place with a very low population in a secluded area. Then travel for stimulation when I want or need it. I cannot stand people who break a lot of rules and laws, are morally or ethically compromised, or have no self-control or boundaries. And it seems there are so many like this now, at least I have had to deal with them around me more now than ever before. I like my space.
討厭又愚蠢的人整天都圍繞著你◕☁₪，使人精疲力竭╃•☁✘☁。每天都是如此╃•☁✘☁。我認為我們◕☁₪，至少我作為一名INTJ◕☁₪，真的只是想逃離人◕☁₪，而不是地球·☁！無論是在開車✘•│•、上班還是在商店裡◕☁₪，我都沒有一天不必與一個非常令人惱火和粗魯的人打交道╃•☁✘☁。我只想在一個美麗的地方退休◕☁₪，在一個偏僻的地方◕☁₪，人口很少╃•☁✘☁。然後◕☁₪，當我想要或需要刺激時◕☁₪，就去旅行╃•☁✘☁。我無法忍受那些違反大量規則和法律✘•│•、道德或道德受到損害✘•│•、或者沒有自制力或界限的人╃•☁✘☁。現在似乎有很多這樣的人◕☁₪，至少我現在比以往任何時候都更需要與身邊的人打交道╃•☁✘☁。我喜歡有我自己的空間╃•☁✘☁。
Not an INTJ but an INTP, yet I often feel quite burdened by the fact that in order to live a modern life in modern society, that involves having to figure out how to mingle and work with other people. I have an uncanny ability to tolerate it as long as I need to, 8 hours to 12 hours a day depending on the job, but that’s about it. It would be great to not have to interact with anyone at all, grow my own food, hunt my own game, and just stick to myself.
我不是INTJ◕☁₪，而是INTP◕☁₪，但我經常感到很有負擔◕☁₪，因為要在現代社會中過現代生活◕☁₪，就必須弄清楚如何與其他人交往和工作╃•☁✘☁。我有一種不可思議的能力◕☁₪，只要我需要◕☁₪，我就可以忍受社交◕☁₪，每天8小時到12小時◕☁₪，這取決於我的工作◕☁₪，但這就夠了╃•☁✘☁。如果完全不需要與任何人互動◕☁₪，種植自己的食物◕☁₪，狩獵自己的遊戲◕☁₪，只需做自己就好了╃•☁✘☁。